The 4 Best Dating Sites for Professionals

So you’ve spent the last few years focusing on your startup, or working your way up the corporate ladder. You’re successful in life, but just haven’t found the time to find the one perfect woman for you.

You’ve decided the time is now. You’re going to meet someone, but not just anyone. You want to meet an awesome girl you’ll be proud to introduce to your work buddies at this year’s Christmas party.

You’ve heard some good things about eHarmony, but who really has time for their 250-question Relationship Questionnaire? Plus, it sucks having to watch eHarm slowly drip feed you subpar matches that rarely interest you. And then once you finally get a good one, there’s that painfully slow “Guided Communication” process.


You’ve probably also heard a thing or two about this PlentyOfFish (aka POF) dating site. Sure, it’s faster and easier to use than eHarmony. And it does have some attractive, educated women, but they seem so few and far between. As a busy professional, of course you don’t have time to find the diamonds in all that coal.

You could make a wise decision and hire your very own virtual dating assistant to do it all for you, but if you’re going to go at it on your own, these 4 best dating sites for professionals are where you want to start.

match is the most promising paid dating site in terms of sheer volume of members. Plus, the monthly fee weeds out women who aren’t serious about actually meeting someone in person.

And that’s important, because you’re a busy guy. Online dating can quickly turn into a part-time job, and you’ve already got a career taking up most of your time.

So from an efficiency standpoint, choosing a paid site with a large pool of women makes the most sense.

Use the search criteria to target the type of women you want to date. If you’re looking for a career-minded woman, filter your results by occupation and/or income level.

Once you’ve got a list of enticing women you’d like to message, check out this article for a quick way to send one creative message to hundreds of women.

MMIf you’re looking for the total package – someone who’s beautiful and successful, trying out MillionaireMatch is must. And no, you don’t really have to be a millionaire to join. But the women you’ll find on the site are looking for successful, established men and generally have high expectations of what to expect on a date.

MillionaireMatch isn’t a traditional “sugar daddy” dating site, although you will find beautiful women who are looking for a generous gentleman. The site has positioned itself as a place where millionaires meet, but it’s also got quite a few gorgeous, successful, career-minded women who are simply tired of their dates showing up on the city bus.

Out of all the websites we’ve tested, this one gets the highest response rate for our clients. Whether you’re seeking a long-term girlfriend, wife, or model quality companion, with a little luck, you’ll find her on this site.

Click here for some tips on how to get your MillionaireMatch profile to stand out in the crowd.


If you practice Christianity or were at least raised in a Christian home, ChristianMingle is certainly worth checking out. It’s the most popular website for serious, marriage-minded Christians, and a great option for men seeking a partner who shares the same faith.

You’ll find a range of women from “Bible-thumpers” to casual believers, and you don’t have to be a devout follower to sign up. But yes, you generally should be a Christian to join this site. Sometimes it’s okay to skirt the truth about certain things on a dating profile, but your religion probably isn’t one of them.

And the site’s demographics are in your favor as well. On the site, the women tend to outnumber the men (a rare thing indeed!), and if you’re looking to meet 35+ year old women, there sure are a lot of them.

JDateJDate is another faith-based dating site we’ve used to get excellent results for our clients. In fact, it’s our go-to site for Jewish guys looking to meet a nice Jewish girl grandma will be thrilled to meet.

The site attracts high-quality, successful women. And although the pool of users is a bit smaller than you’ll find on a mainstream site like Match, the subscription fee is usually worth every penny if you’re in a mid- to large-sized city.

Some of the profile questions on JDate delve a little deeper than other sites, and they’re not always easy to answer. So be prepared for questions like “What is your perception of the ideal relationship?” and “What have you learned from past relationships?”

She’s going to put a lot of thought into her responses, and she expects the same effort from you. Click here for some great advice on how to answer those tricky questions.

So there you have it – our top 4 dating sites for professionals. But since you’re probably the type of guy who likes to hedge his bets, here are…

2 honorable mentions worth your consideration:

OkCupid is worth a shot simply due to the sheer number of attractive women you’ll find there. But since it’s a free site, the user base isn’t exactly what you’d call curated. Any unemployed, aspiring artist can join in just a few clicks.

However, we’ve found the quality of the average user is a notch or two above PlentyOfFish. You can find some diamonds in the rough without investing a ton of time, all it takes is some smart advanced searches and quick profile screening.

But on the plus side, if you pay for “A-List” access (prices range from $7.95 to $15.95 per month), you can use the “attractiveness” filter to weed your search down to only the women who have been rated as 4 or 5 Stars by other users. Happy hunting.

The League is basically Tinder for elitists. The wait list to get in tends to be long, but if and when they pull back their virtual velvet rope for you, you’ll be looking at a much more “eligible” base of accomplished single women.

The app uses your Facebook and LinkedIn accounts to hide your profile from your friends, coworkers, and bosses, so it’s also more discrete than Tinder.

The best online dating service of all for busy professionals.

OK, you can mark this one down as a biased, shameless self-promo, but here at, we have helped thousands of professional men just like you find the woman of their dreams on the sites listed above and many more.

We’ll select the very best combination of dating sites for you, write your profiles, select your photos, and find the most attractive and compatible matches available. We’ll send your messages for you and we’ll even book dates with the women you like best. All you have to do is show up!

There’s literally no quicker and easier way to meet quality women online in existence.

And as a busy professional, delegating just makes sense so you can focus on what you do best. Click here to see if leaving this to the experts is right for you.

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