Do Nice Guys Finish Last Online?

Scott Valdez Shares Test Results That Might Surprise You…

Girls love bad boys — and, why not? Girls do go for overly confident jerks, right?

Especially the overly confident jerks who are funny enough to get away with their jerky behavior. Meanwhile, you’re the kind of guy who would do anything make the ladies feel happy and secure, but all their attention is on the overly confident a-hole…

If this is you, it may seem like all your life, all of society has been a part of a huge, dirty-but-true conspiracy to beat the “nice guy” down…

But do the same rules apply for online dating?

Sort of…but not really…

Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last Online…Sort of…

We’ve done a MONSTROUS amount of research on this subject. We’ve tracked thousands of messages and we’ve broken each one down into 19 different variables, all in the name of determining, once and for all, the best way to approach women online…

Do women prefer the nice guy who starts off by showing interest?

Or the cocky, arrogant bad boy that women hate to love (and we hate that they love, too)?

Before I share the results, let me add a point of clarification…

Nice guys who are insecure, submissive, and overly complimentary DO finish last!

Women see these behaviors as weak and unattractive…

So in our research, we’re not talking about the self-defeating nice guy…

If you have a problem with kissing up to women, or putting yourself down…. You still need to get that part ‘handled’…

The “nice guy” we’re talking about has no problem being a little playful, a little challenging and a little funny,

…but more than anything, our “nice guy” is a genuine and self-confident guy who is both nice and, obviously, interested.

…in contrast, our “cocky, arrogant guy” teases and challenges women in his messages. He often writes as if he is the prize that they can win… if they’re lucky.

Looking at the numbers, we found that while both approaches were certainly successful, the nice/interested approach was 7% more effective than the Cocky & Funny one!

So what’s the explanation for this?

First off, there is the possibility that the “cocky, playful guy,” (or Cocky & Funny as some call it) doesn’t work as well online as it does in the real world. This ain’t the bar scene. Girls are often going on these sites because they’re tired of all that.

Cocky humor is difficult to pull off online because it is very easily misinterpreted. When she reads your message, she can’t hear the playful tone of your voice or see your devilishly cute smile.

In fact – there’s no body language at all! As a result, techniques that might work in the real world will often make you look like a complete asshole in the online arena.

But it gets worse…

Even some Cocky & Funny lines that were legitimately funny only worked SOMETIMES. And women LOVE funny online.

Here’s why they often didn’t work:

Women pay attention to all the little details. When they read your message, they check your profile right afterward, and then your photos. ..

If you seem like a really straight-forward “nice guy” in your profile and photos, but your message is Cocky & Funny then she will wonder who you really are and why you’re trying to be someone you are not…

When a woman begins to wonder if you’re not being yourself, then she will immediately become much less interested in meeting you…

If she starts questioning whether or not you’re hiding something, she’s not going to wait around to find out what you’re hiding… because you might be hiding the fact that you’re a serial killer…

And women are on high alert for any odd behavior from guys online. The media has always loved running online dating horror stories in the news. Plus, women are naturally security-seeking creatures…

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