Doing online dating is a lot like being a sniper in the military: No matter how good a sniper is, he still has to learn some basic hand to hand combat before he’s fully trained.
Whether or not you choose to meet women online, when you actually land the date, you’re still going to need to create a powerful impression in order for her to want to get to know you more…
At this point, “gaming” her isn’t necessarily what will work best for you.
After chatting with her online, she’s ALREADY interested in you; now, she’s looking at you and observing whether the finer points are present.
In other words, after striking such a great impression with her online, she just needs to know that you’re the man she expects you to be…
…And you don’t have to actually DO anything to be this guy…
Some call it confidence; in the hip hop world, it’s called having swagger…
Being the ultra hot guy is always more powerful than any line or trick that you use. That’s why when you meet her you should remember to do the following things in order to keep her attracted automatically:
Always stand tall, with your shoulders back, do not slouch. Men often make an awkward S shape with their body; don’t do this either.
Keep your head tilted slightly upward. Most guys look down towards the ground, and so even taller guys often have a demeanor as if they’re looking up to other people. This is a low status thing to do.
Always take up lots of space. One universal characteristic of alpha males is they take up more space than other males… they’re also the least inhibited about impinging on other people’s space (an example of this is when you’re sitting in the movie theater and you’re afraid to put your arm on the arm rest because you don’t want to impinge – do the opposite.)
Project your voice. This should probably be rule number one. More than teasing, Cocky and Funny, or any other technique, projecting your voice will communicate all the right things to a woman.
Most guys lower their voice tone around attractive women and this is a very subtle way of kissing up to her. YOU are going to speak clearly and confidently – almost as if you’re speaking through her.
This communicates that you are definitely not intimidated by her, and that you’re probably used to being around women like her, and a whole cocktail of other attractive qualities.
Move slowly. Never flinch when she looks at you, or tests you – keep your cool! Move slowly, like you’re totally at ease with yourself. Walk slower, talk slower, and even blink slower. Moving more slowly is an indicator of poise – a very high status quality, and one of James Bond’s most attractive traits.
And last but not least…
Direct eye contact. There is nothing you can do to communicate so much with so little effort. In a way, it communicates all of the great qualities mentioned before. Always keep your eyes comfortably rested on hers. Don’t try to stare deliberately, but when you’re facing her, look into her eyes…
Often, meeting women online successfully comes down to eliminating as many barriers to success as possible. These body language traits will take you a LONG way – ESPECIALLY when talking to a woman who’s already excited to meet you in person.
That’s it for today. Let me know how you liked this post in the comments below!
