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Ivan Dyn is the creator of MasculineFreedom.com and the author of an eBook called “Unleash Your True Masculinity: Attract the Women of your Dreams.”  His unique approach combines psychology, personal growth, and spirituality to help men break free from the emotional baggage makes it possible to create real, passionate, and meaningful relationships with women.

Ivan takes a holistic approach toward dating.  He helps guys peel the onion layers of insecurity off their emotional shell to reveal their innate masculine core.  He teaches men to bring this core into the present so they can exude the kind of masculine energy that women love.  Ivan gives his students the tools to create the kind of passionate relationships most men (and women) only dream of having.

I enjoyed spending some time on the line with Ivan and I think you will enjoy some of the wisdom he shared…

Here’s what you’ll learn:

•    How Your Past Can Mess You Up with Women
•    The BEST Way to Get Your Power Back in Relationships
•    A Simple Chinese Healing Technique EVERYONE Should Know
•    The SECRET of Building Your Masculine Core
•    Affirmation and Meditation:  Does it Work?
•    The NECESSITY of Bringing Your Masculinity to the Present
•    Flirting Prerequisites for Phenomenal First Dates
•    Open Body Language vs. Closed Body Language
•    Dating Technique: The DANGER of Knowing Too Much
•    Common Mistakes with Typical Dating Advice

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Alex Nova is the founder of www.AttractWomen.com.au, a dating coaching company in Australia and South East Asia that teaches men how to attract women naturally. With 10 years of studying female attraction and teaching men how to master it under his belt, Alex is, without a doubt, one of the top dating experts from the land down under.

Initially unsuccessful with women, Alex made a commitment with a group of friends to go out every week for the sole purpose of approaching women. He gradually gained confidence while figuring out what works and fine tuning his skills.

Today, Alex coaches on the secrets of body language, talking to women, how to build your confidence and self-esteem, and much more. Alex’s approach to coaching student is very hands on as he takes them into the “field” (i.e. bars) to show them the ropes.

It was my pleasure to conduct this exclusive interview with Alex and I’m glad to be able to share his rock-solid and highly effective wisdom with my followers.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• Turning a Number into a DATE – Text and Phone Strategies to leave her BEGGING for more.
• Callback Humor – One Way to Break the Ice and Build Immediate Rapport on the Phone.
• FOOLPROOF Text Messaging –the Biggest Mistakes Men Make and the Best Strategies to create Interest and Connection.
• More Interesting and Exciting Ways to Describe Your Day (… even if it was boring).
• Date Locations – Places to Go and Things to Do so Hot Girls Know You’re the Kind of Guy They Always Wanted.
• First Date Conversations – What to Say and What NEVER to Say.
• Body Language Basics – What You Can Do Now… Plus, How To Read Women.
• Flirting – The BEST Things a SEXUAL Man Says and Does So She Can’t Wait to Get Physical.

If Your Match.com Profile Isn’t Getting Lots of Attention (aka “views”), This May Be The Problem…

Your profile headline is only one sentence – but it’s a very important sentence… without it, women have no incentive to read your profile in the first place.

Headlines are so important that marketers revere them with an almost pseudo-religious nature…

I’m not joking…

If you look at any magazine on a newsstand, there’s a great chance that the people who wrote the headline on the cover of the magazine got paid more than that people wrote the articles inside…

Nothing happens until you’ve gotten a woman’s attention, that’s why, if your profile description is king, then your profile headline is the crown.

Every good profile must have 3 elements:

1. It must capture attention
2. It must be entertaining.
3. It must get her to read further.

Headlines often have some humor, or “shocking” element, that immediately engages a woman’s emotions, and compels her to get to know more.

A good profile headline can also be an incomplete story. The story can begin in the headline, and end in the profile description. As such, it can force women to read your profile in order to satisfy their curiosity.

This also known as a cliffhanger…

Here are some examples:

My touchdown won the trophy with just seconds on the clock…

Profile text: …OK, so the game was my family’s annual thanksgiving back yard super bowl and the trophy was made of aluminum foil, but it still counts, right?

Notice the “shock” factor I mentioned before…

There’s so much tension in this headline, that women are compelled to find out what comes next…

Here’s another for comparison:

… And then there was the time I nearly got arrested in Thailand…

Profile Text: … in other languages things don’t always mean what you think they mean when you say them.

Think of the wildest adventure you’ve ever had.

That’s a good start.

Can you write a headline about the climax of this adventure?

Were you hanging onto a cliff with only one land?

Did Donald Trump make you an offer you couldn’t refuse?

Were you surfing at sunset when you saw a shark’s fin?

These are exaggerations that I made up…

You definitely don’t have to make up a story in order to write a good headline. Often times, the best ones come from real life.

What’s more important than concocting a fake story is to come up with something that paints a vivid picture in her mind.

As with many other areas online, descriptive imagery is highly important for your profile headline – and you can make a game of chess sound as suspenseful as a gunfight if you spun it the right way…

So what’s your amazing profile headline? (Put your ideas in the comments below.)